science fiction, new weird, old weird, very weird - and everything else. often, though not always, discussed in relation to gender identity and (a)sexuality.
I'm currently following the whole shit-show on Twitter. I'm sorry for every woman who got hurt. Thank you for coming out, for standing up.
I feel sick that I was moved by his piece in the NYT. I feel sick that I was naiv enough to think "I hurt women" meant cheating on them. Trauma is never, ever an excuse to cause harm. Never.
Why am I still surprised by people being assholes?